Thursday, July 4, 2019

菲律宾日常 - 马尼拉新任市长莫雷诺称有人以每日提供500万披索试图行贿 以放过路边摊贩

仅在上任的第二天,马尼拉市长伊斯科·莫雷诺(Isko Moreno)周二(2号)坦诚已有人试图贿赂他以放弃对路边摊贩的行动,该行动是为了解决马尼拉市长期以来存在的非法路边摊贩以及严重的交通拥堵。

莫雷诺在一次新闻发布会上对记者说:“有人试图向我行贿,称每天给我五百万披索,一个月就是1.5亿,一年18亿披索。”

当被问及贿赂是为了什么时,他回答说:“就像之前的市政府那样,放过那些小摊贩。”

莫雷诺说:“我当时简单明了跟他说,‘你尽管试试看’。之后他就再也没有打过来了。”


新任马尼拉市长莫雷诺(Isko Moreno)一上任便开始着手于清理中路区(Divisoria)的路边摊贩以及道路障碍,使该地区在48小时内出现道路畅通的奇景。

莫雷诺说,如果非法摊贩和路障回到了中路区的道路,这表明他已经收下最近对他提出的巨额贿赂。

莫雷诺在接受记者采访时说:“如果中路区再次陷入困境,那么就有理由认为我收下了贿赂。”

他补充说:“如果非法摊贩回到中路区、雷克托大街(Recto)、溪仔婆区(Quiapo)等所有已被清理的地区,那你可以直接认为我收下贿赂,而我上任首日带头进行的清理行动只是一种宣传噱头。”

莫雷诺强调,上述地区的清理工作将继续进行。

莫雷诺早些时候透露,有人试图向他行贿,称每天给他五百万披索或每年18亿披索以放弃打击路边非法摊贩的行动。

莫雷诺告诉摊贩:“你们已经占领街道长达六年,现在是马尼拉人民受益并利用这些街道的时候了。

菲律宾日常 - 现在要怎样分别菲律宾华人

菲律宾朋友问我:现在要怎样分别华人?我说你为什么会这样问?他说:现在在很多地方看见很多华人,但是跟你们不同。我跟菲律宾朋友说:那是从中国来的中国人,与我们生活在这里的华侨、华人、华裔不同。
  
菲律宾朋友说:那要怎么样分别?这个问题却难倒了我。我们已经认识了三十年,而且有生意上的往来。他们夫妇俩从市郊外的一个小店开始,现在拥有了很多分店,都是他们的儿女在经营。能够从一个小店到几个分店,当然是得到我们的信任,给予“放账”,因为他们是有诚信的人。
  
我跟菲律宾朋友说:我们之所以分为华侨、华人、华裔三种人,因为“华侨”是指居住在这里的华人,他们是属于外侨身份,拥有合法的居留权。“华人”是在这里出生的华人,也可以说是菲籍华人。“华裔”是几代人都在这里生活的华人,可以说是菲籍华人的后裔,有些已经融入大社会,而且认为他们是菲律宾人。

我跟菲律宾朋友说:现在因为很多中国人进入菲律宾,他们的言行举止跟这里的华侨、华人、华裔有所不同,所以才有这样的问题。现在很多菲律宾人就没有这种想法,他们把在这里生活的华侨、华人、华裔混在一起,都称为中国人。
  
我跟菲律宾朋友说:你们是很难分别出来的,我们却是很容易分别出来,因为这里的华侨、华人、华裔的祖籍大多数是福建省,说的是闽南话。而现在这些进入菲律宾的中国人,是来自中国各个省份,说的是国语,因为我们听得出来。可是现在很多菲律宾人却把我们这些华侨、华人、华裔当作新来的中国人一样看待。有些菲律宾客户几天没看到我,相遇时就问我是不是回去中国?这样的问法,令我啼笑皆非!我要怎么样解释?
  
我跟菲律宾朋友说:其实很容易分别出来,本地华侨、华人、华裔的言行举止是比较低调。那些中国人凡事都是很高调。一高一低,就可以看出格调。

Wednesday, July 3, 2019

菲律宾日常 - 在菲借贷时签下自愿被拘禁协议,神仙也就不了你!

来自菲律宾国家警察(PNP)反绑架组织(AKG)的数据显示,涉及中国公民的绑架勒索赎金案件数量越来越多,尽管与前几十年的数百起事件相比要少得多。
2018年,17名中国公民被绑架,超过一倍(112.5%),而2017年为8人。
2019年上半年,6名中国公民被绑架。
这些事件发生在菲律宾中国游客和工人涌入之际,因为马尼拉和北京之间的关系变得更加友好。
中国人是菲律宾的顶级游客之一,去年有125万人次入境,占菲律宾国内生产总值的12.7%。
中国工人也纷纷涌入,其中许多人在网络游戏公司工作。劳工部长西尔维斯特·贝洛三世在2月的一次参议院听证会上表示,过去3年来,他的办公室签发的169,000份外国人就业许可证中约有一半是中国公民。
PNP-AKG主任警察布里格。Glenn Dumlao将军说,大多数被绑架的中国公民都是中国高利贷集团的受害者,他们会诱使他们借钱在赌场玩耍。
如果受害者未能偿还,他们就被勒索赎金。
“几乎所有的绑架都发生在娱乐城,MOA(亚洲购物中心)附近,涉及到赌场和在线(游戏)的人,”Dumlao说,估计已经超过100,000中国员工在菲律宾的在线游戏行业。
受害者赌博,签署豁免自愿拘留
据反犯罪组织恢复和平与秩序运动称,一些受害者被邀请到菲律宾工作。
但在他们开始就业之前,他们被诱惑先学习赌博才能诱导他人赌博。
反犯罪组织认为,实际案件数量可能是警方发布案件的5倍,因为有的案件没有被报道。该组织称,有些案件的受害者被杀害。
“过去几年,这些事件以几何级数增长。主要问题是,即使已经提起诉讼,受害者也很少提起案件诉讼或追查案件,“该组织说。
其中一起案件是查理蔡的谋杀案。他的尸体在位于Parañaque市赌场中心附近的Cavite将军的一条小溪中被发现。
据他的亲戚介绍,他在今年2月20日与邀请他为一家在线赌博公司工作的朋友共进晚餐后失踪了好几天。
另一名受害者是朱芳梅。虽然他于1月16日在塔吉格市被捕,但后来在他被绑架者折磨后因头部严重受伤而死于医院。
该组织表示,有的受害人甚至因为高利贷集团的威胁导致自杀,无力偿还债务的人被迫自杀。无法支付损失,然后他们被关遭到殴打和折磨,直到他们的家人还清。但是,一些受害者为了让家人免于偿还付不起的债务决定跳下高楼。
解决这个问题一直是PNP-AKG面临的挑战。
在某些情况下,受害者自己签署了放弃高利贷的豁免,他们同意被拘留,直到还清赌债。有一些案例自愿行为,受害人自愿签署合同,同意被禁锢至付清贷款为止。这就是为什么当你看到犯罪视频时,没有暴力,没有争吵。这就是为什么有时,案件被驳回,因为什么都没有看然后签署贷款协议。
反绑架组织最近与赌场的安全经理签署了一份协议备忘录,共同采取积极行动打击高利贷活动。他们还与中国驻马尼拉大使馆不断协调解决犯罪问题。 菲律宾驻华大使罗马纳说,中国当局对菲律宾发生的绑架事件表示担忧。 “根据我与中国外交官和官员的讨论,这是他们的关注,因为它涉及中国人的生活,中国人在国外的安全,所以我认为两个执法机构之间正在进行讨论,”他在接受北京电话采访时说。


菲律宾日常 - 警方突击藏匿遭绑架中国赌客房子

菲国警昨天搜查了据报藏匿遭绑架的中国籍赌客的房屋。

菲国警反绑架组同时搜查了位于描东岸和拉实宾迎斯的安全屋,据说两处的安全屋是绑架勒索赎金的组织所使用,该组织专门锁定在娱乐城里的中国籍豪赌客。

菲国警反绑架组行动人员搜查了位于描东岸省丹恼湾和拉斯宾迎斯市布兰努巴(Las Pinas City)的房屋,但嫌犯都已不在前址。

菲国警反绑架组组长杜劳警长说,嫌犯赌场赌客来菲律宾赌博。

杜劳说:“这个绑架勒索赎金组织的目标的豪赌客。他们不会绑架借钱的普通赌客。”

杜劳说,赎金通常是大约1亿人民币或7亿披索。他说,另一名受害者是塞浦路斯的中国商人,他被诱骗到菲律宾投资,并在抵达机场后被绑架。

李超(音)于6月11日在巴西市(Pasig)的KTV酒吧内被一群人绑架。

监控录影显示男性嫌犯对李超执行假的逮捕令,然后把他强行带上一辆面包车。李超是在支付了1亿7500万披索后才获得释放。

杜劳说,嫌犯乔装为执行行动的国调局人员。

他说:“他们乔装成国调局人员或警员。他们是希望看起来像是合法的执法行动。”

另一名受害人被带到描东岸省丹恼湾。监控录影显示在绑架中使用的休旅车是如何地在描东岸被拆解。

当局在拉斯宾迎斯的房子内找到国调局和警察的徽章,警员制服、帽子和口罩。  

当局也在安全屋内发现了枪、手榴弹、M-203榴弹发射器,以及共130万披的1000披索钞票。  

菲国警反绑架组正在准备控告中国籍嫌犯和一名菲律宾人头目绑架勒索赎金和严重非法禁锢。

其他中国籍受害者将回到菲律宾提出控诉。

有关嫌疑人的任何信息,可以透过热线02-7266770和0927-3234894联络菲国警反绑架组。

Tuesday, July 2, 2019

菲律宾故事集 - 中国有一个新的赌场,菲律宾






Chinese workers on break outside an office building in Pasay City, Philippines. By some estimates, at least 100,000 people from mainland China have moved to Manila for jobs as gambling company marketing agents, tech support specialists and engineers. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
Gambling is illegal in China, but that didn’t prevent Fan Zheng from betting tens of thousands of dollars online.
The 30-year-old store clerk from the island province of Hainan learned about the opportunity early last year from marketing agents who, Fan believes, contacted him because he played no-stakes online card games.
“They knew I was a potential gambler,” he said.
At first, the agents persuaded him to bet on card games. That added thrill and a chance of making money to something he was already doing for fun.

But the card games were slow, and Fan kept losing. The agents suggested that he try a game called Tencent Every-Minute-Lottery, which generates winning numbers based on the total users logged into a Chinese messaging app. As the name suggests, there is a new chance to win every minute.
Soon he was hooked. Sometimes he bet $1.50. Other times, he bet $10,000.
“The more I played, the bigger amounts I’d bet,” he said.
Operating safely out of reach of Chinese authorities, the lottery website and its agents are based hundreds of miles away in the Philippines.
The Southeast Asian nation is being transformed by a massive surge in online gambling companies catering to players in China, where rising incomes have given more people the means to wager.

Many of the sites targeting gamblers in China feature livestreams from Manila of baccarat tables replete with croupiers.
Many of the sites targeting gamblers in China feature livestreams from Manila of baccarat tables replete with croupiers. (Oriental Game)
The demand is expected to drive gambling revenue in the Philippines to $4.1 billion this year, up from just over $1 billion in 2016, according to the government.
Those figures also include traditional casinos, which have gotten their own boost from rising tourism from China.
Still, the revenue generated online pays salaries, rent, government bribes and other costs in the Philippines and has given the economy a significant boost. The annual licensing fees — $140 million last year, more than 11 times the 2016 total — are now the third-largest source of government revenue behind taxes and customs.
The boom is most apparent here in the capital, where gambling companies and their employees have driven commercial and residential rents to record highs.
By some estimates, at least 100,000 people from mainland China have moved to Manila for jobs as gambling company marketing agents, tech support specialists and engineers — all to serve the Mandarin-speaking clientele.
“Everybody is after the Chinese customer because they’re the biggest market and they’re the biggest gamblers,” said Rosalind Wade, the Manila-based managing director of Asia Gaming Brief, a research and consulting firm.
Philippine President Rodrigo Duterte, who once railed against the industry as a vector for crime, recently called for its expansion.
that was the quote “That gambling, gambling,” Duterte told supporters at a recent rally, “I cannot control it.”
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People watch a fountain show outside the Casino at Okada Manila in Entertainment City, in Paranaque, Philippines. The district has become the country’s premier casino destination, particularly for Chinese gamblers.
People watch a fountain show outside the Casino at Okada Manila in Entertainment City, in Paranaque, Philippines. The district has become the country’s premier casino destination, particularly for Chinese gamblers. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)

Visitors take photos outside the Casino at Okada Manila in Entertainment City in Paranaque, Philippines. The casino is one of a handful in Entertainment City that allow proxy betting, which is when gamblers abroad place wagers at the casino remotely.
Visitors take photos outside the Casino at Okada Manila in Entertainment City in Paranaque, Philippines. The casino is one of a handful in Entertainment City that allow proxy betting, which is when gamblers abroad place wagers at the casino remotely. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
The story of the rise of offshore Chinese gambling in the Philippines starts in the world of bricks and mortar.
Over the last decade, the country has built some of the region’s largest casino resorts, none bigger than those located along Manila Bay in a development called Entertainment City.
The gleaming gambling houses and hotels here have helped turn the Philippines into Asia’s third-most lucrative gambling destination, just behind Singapore and very far behind world-leading Macao.
Chinese high rollers once would have scorned the idea of gambling in the Philippines. Then in 2016 Duterte announced his “separation” from the U.S. and realignment with China. Over the next two years, according to the Philippine tourism department, the annual number of Chinese tourists nearly doubled to 1.2 million.
On a recent night at the City of Dreams casino, Chinese baccarat players were wagering tens of thousands of dollars a hand in VIP rooms.
But the biggest bets were being placed remotely. Using computer tablets and headsets to communicate with gamblers watching from abroad on cameras, Mandarin-speaking female employees readied stacks of chips each worth more than $19,000 and waited patiently for instructions.
Proxy betting, as the practice is called, is outlawed in all but only a handful of countries because little is known about the remote gamblers.
That it’s welcome in the Philippines underscores the lengths the country will go to court Chinese money.

A couple walks to the entrance of City of Dreams in Entertainment City, Paranaque, Philippines. The Philippines is the third-largest gambling destination in Asia, behind only Singapore and Macao.
A couple walks to the entrance of City of Dreams in Entertainment City, Paranaque, Philippines. The Philippines is the third-largest gambling destination in Asia, behind only Singapore and Macao. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
The online boom was set in motion when Duterte signed Executive Order No. 13 in 2016, stripping two small regional economic agencies of the authority to issue offshore gambling licenses and handing it to the Philippine Amusement and Gaming Corp., which is both a national regulator and a gambling operator.
Almost overnight, investors in the Philippines and elsewhere in Southeast Asia seized the new opportunity to reach Chinese gamblers.
Their online game of choice is baccarat. The sites also featured roulette and the Chinese dice game sic bo. Many feature livestreams with dealers at empty tables.
Several sites each receive more than $3 million a day in deposits — the money players transfer to the sites to bet with — according to a gambling executive whose company provides payment software and operates a site that features virtual slot machines.
He spoke on condition that his name not be published, because of the sensitivity of his business and how much was at stake. In less than a week, he said, one of his customers lost $300,000.
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Chinese workers take a break outside an office building in Pasay City, Philippines. The prevalence of Chinese workers in Manila has irked some locals who say they’re driving up residential rental prices.
Chinese workers take a break outside an office building in Pasay City, Philippines. The prevalence of Chinese workers in Manila has irked some locals who say they’re driving up residential rental prices. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)

Chinese workers smoke outside an office building in Pasay City, Philippines. The workers are lured to the Philippines with salaries much higher than those offered in China and perks such as free housing, meals and flights home.
Chinese workers smoke outside an office building in Pasay City, Philippines. The workers are lured to the Philippines with salaries much higher than those offered in China and perks such as free housing, meals and flights home. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
The faster the industry grows, the more it needs workers with the language skills and cultural know-how to indulge Chinese gamblers.
At first, operators targeted Chinese students already in the Philippines.
Eventually, that labor pool ran dry. Companies grew desperate and started recruiting outside train stations in China, where migrant job seekers would gather.
Today, the industry uses social media or word of mouth to find labor.
Nearly all in their early 20s, the workers are lured to the Philippines with lofty salaries and benefits such as free accommodations, meals and flights home.
“It’s boring work,” said one gambling site manager, who spoke on condition that he not be named because China regards his work as illegal. “It’s a lot of texting and calling. Some have to do it for 12-hour shifts.”

Chinese customers dine in a Chinese night market in Pasay City, Philippines. The influx of Chinese gambling employees has had a ripple effect on the local economy, particularly the rise of new Chinese restaurants.
Chinese customers dine in a Chinese night market in Pasay City, Philippines. The influx of Chinese gambling employees has had a ripple effect on the local economy, particularly the rise of new Chinese restaurants. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
The manager said the creature comforts of home have improved dramatically since he moved to Manila in 2011 to study English at a university there. He can now find his favorite spicy Hunan food with ease.
For many of his employees, the job is their first taste of financial freedom.
“These are people who would have worked in factories if they didn’t come here,” the manager said.
The appearance of so many college-age foreigners makes some residents uneasy. Philippine professionals complain about the workers being rowdy, their penchant for smoking and their lack of English. Others scoff that some of the newest high-paying jobs in the Philippines are going to foreigners while millions of Filipinos continue to have to go overseas to seek employment.
“The cultural differences are the main reason there’s hostility,” said Dana Krizia Mengote Sandoval, a spokeswoman for the Bureau of Immigration.

“Bayview is ours,” and “The Philippines is ours” are written on a wall along Bayview Drive in Paranaque City, where Chinese businesses have taken over.
“Bayview is ours,” and “The Philippines is ours” are written on a wall along Bayview Drive in Paranaque City, where Chinese businesses have taken over. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)

Chinese workers at a Chinese grocery store near an office building in Paranaque City, Philippines.
Chinese workers at a Chinese grocery store near an office building in Paranaque City, Philippines. (Eloisa Lopez / For The Times)
“Now they’re seeing Chinese people firsthand,” she said. “It’s more personal.”
Property owners have naturally been more welcoming. Real estate prices around Manila have soared 40% since offshore gambling took off in 2016.
Some gambling operators, scrambling to find office space and apartments for their workers, are providing a year’s worth of rent in advance, according to David Leechiu, who heads a Manila-based real estate firm.
The Chinese presence, he said, is helping beckon investors from China and parts of Southeast Asia.
“We can call it a ‘Chinese invasion,’ but it’s more than that. It’s the Philippines opening up to the world.”
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Both the Philippines and China have overlooked their own laws to allow the industry to thrive.
The law stipulates that the sites are not allowed to target any country where gambling is banned.
Kickbacks are also common. One former security consultant for a gambling operator in Manila said the company paid $500,000 to $1 million a month in bribes.
“Legislators, law enforcement, immigration officials, they all came asking for handouts because they knew the money was coming from China,” said the consultant, who spoke anonymously because of a confidentiality agreement.
For its part, Beijing has done little to pressure the Philippines to stop targeting China. Nor has it moved to break up the black-market banking system the industry relies on.
Rural Chinese residents are recruited to open accounts at major commercial banks in exchange for a nominal fee. Then agents tell gamblers where to deposit their money. The transactions are then masked as retail purchases for everyday items like phone cards or shoes.
That ultimately leaves the gamblers vulnerable.
Within a few months after he started playing the lottery game, Fan was in debt and began borrowing from friends, family and online lenders. When he couldn’t make payments on one loan, he’d open a credit card or borrow from another online lender.
Then one day last June, he got lucky and hit a major payout that would have covered his $150,000 in losses. But when it came time to collect, his account was suddenly canceled. His agent in the Philippines disappeared.
Fan considered going to the police, but thought better of it. What he’s done was illegal, after all.
“They might arrest me,” Fan said. “I’m definitely not going to play anymore. I’m going to slowly do my regular work, try to make money and pay it back.”
Pierson reported from Manila and Su from Beijing.

Monday, July 1, 2019

菲律宾故事集 - 给菲籍女友20万人民币,只换来现场抓奸在床的狼狈收场!

就在前几天,她成为我的前女友,我们曾有过快乐的时光,却无奈闹到荒诞收场:出轨、抓奸一件没有落下。


初见她时,我们一群人在圆桌上聚餐。

我到来的时候扫了一眼桌子,发现有我认识的,也有我不认识的。

后来,我多问了一句我认识的菲律宾女生,也就是我前女友的表姐,那个坐在中间性格很开朗的女生是谁。

自此,便成了我一年多狼狈故事的的开始。

命运有时候如舞台的幕布,你好奇的想揭开一角,却无法预示幕布之下藏着的是天使还是恶魔。


只是多问一句那个女孩,多加了一个微信,我以为不过是多了一个寂寞难耐时的撩骚对象。殊不知但凡用情,难免全盘皆输。
和大多菲律宾女生一样,前女友温柔热情,性格阳光,可谓正中直男的下怀。我们谈天说地,聊天也能开开开心的。

突然有一天我问她:你有男朋友吗?她回答:没有。我们就顺理成章的在一起了。

在此之前,我也接触过其他的菲律宾女孩,可唯独在她这,我突然就有了恋爱的感觉。

每天都有聊不完的话,每天都过得很开心。她性格很可爱,让我生活中一下增添了许多小惊喜。


中途还有个小插曲,我们在一起一个月的时候,我发现她跟另一名中国人信息来往密切,我忍不住质问了她,她说那是她前男友。即使分手了男方依然对她纠缠不清。

我表明我不高兴的态度后,她便向我保证她不会再理那个男生了,于是往后的一段时间里我们相处融洽。直到当下的东窗事发,我才反省到曾经的我想得太天真了。

都说恋爱里的女人智商为0,恋爱里的男人何尝又不一样呢。


2


我们原先分开住,后来我考虑的都是由自己支付双倍房租,还是选择同居吧。由于我工作很忙我也没有怎么管她,只是跟她说出去玩告诉我去哪和谁在一起就行。

也正因为工作忙,我总想着既然不能长时间陪着她,就在物质上多满足她吧。我每次发工资都会换好一笔钱给她,如果她花完了也会跟我要,一般就会说家里需要钱。我从没有多问,只是觉得作为男人照顾好女朋友是一种应有的责任。

以至于她跟我在一起后,她几乎没有工作过。我怕她无聊,特意给她找了份月收入20000p的工作,她却觉得收入太少,便不了了之。

平静的日子一直这样过着,她喜欢交际,而我则不喜欢太过约束她。直到今年5月份,我发现她再次跟其他男人频繁信息互动。

于是我一次喝酒回家很晚了,发现她在外面喝酒还没有回来。我不由得一阵怒火,气急败坏的把她的东西打包好丢在了门口,并给她发照片。



随即她看到后,直接奔回来要跟我打架,我一开始不还手,直到她把我脸部、耳朵、手给抓伤了。我才和她开启互相伤害模式。

从那以后,我们开始分居的生活,只是房租依旧是我付两份,两个人偶尔还是会见面下。没有钱花的时候,她一样会想到我。


我甚至想过,过年带她回家吧,也许两个人可以试着考虑结婚。她告诉我要有房子才能结婚,我就曾计划着先首付一套房子,然后写她的名字。

看到这里,你一定又要笑我了。她未婚,但是跟韩国人有过一个两岁的小孩,后来孩子被韩国人带走了。
据她所说,她不能适应在韩国的生活,所以她回到了菲律宾。而在期间,她有曾去韩国看望过一次孩子。

我那时候只是沉浸在恋爱里的傻瓜,如同自带滤镜一般只选择美化,回避性的忽略一些本质问题。爱情盲目的时候,也就是毁灭的开始。


3


今年休假回家过年后,我再次来到菲律宾。我时不时要求去她家过夜,她有时候跟我说可以,有时候会拒绝我。

理由则是她晚上要很早休息,第二天一大早要去工作。久而久之,我觉得必有蹊跷,并多留了一个心眼。

并故意试探她,说我没有钱了,给她的钱也比原来少了些。我想在金钱和爱情赌一把,是不是真的有所谓的情比金坚。

只是这种对赌以最直面的方式揭露结局,如同五雷轰顶般粉碎了我任何心存侥幸的遐想。

就在前几日,她不到12点就给我说要睡觉了。我深知,这不太符合她平日的作息时间,我便到她家找她。因为门没有锁,我直接推门而入,却发现里面空无一人。

随即,我拉着朋友去两个酒吧晃悠,看看有没有她的身影,结果都一无所获。我想了想还是天亮了再去她家吧,于是和朋友待到通宵。

等到天亮,我一大早就冲到她住的地方,开门的是她的表姐,她们表姐妹同住在一起。

我直接冲到她的房间一脚揣开她的房门,果然不出我所料,我看到一个睡眼朦胧的男人躺在她的床上。我当即愤怒的录下视频。





她一看到是我,立马用被子把自己的脸捂住,而那个男人则一副没有睡醒的样子对我的到来一脸茫然。显然,他并不知情。

我拿着手机给他看,前一天晚上前女友跟我道晚安的短信,并跟他交代清楚我和前女友之前的关系。

这个时候,我的愤怒已经大过了伤心,我只想告诉他不要和我一样也被她骗了。我说:她,我不要了,你要的话就给你了!

他始终一言不发,也许是这个情况是他始料不及的,也许是我说的信息量太大,他一下接受不来。

随即,我头也不回的走掉了,躲在被子里的前女友始终不敢打开被子看我一眼。我至始至终都很冷静,我没有当场暴怒的殴打这个躺在床上的男人,只是跟他好好聊聊。因为我懂我们都是受害者,不应该互相为难。


4


纵观这一年多,我在前女友身上花掉20万元人民币,包括房租、生活费、给她家里的钱,给她买礼物的钱。

我曾在群里跟朋友说起,我之前每个月给前任更多钱,自己留了部分而已。被大家群嘲了一阵,而我当时只是理直气壮的说:女孩子应该富养,我想对她好一点。

直到如今,我依旧觉得我当时的想法没有错,错的只是这个人。我避免不了心伤,却仍还是愿意去相信爱情,只是不想再去相信一些原本就是错的人。

往事历历在目,依稀还记得她叫我Baby时对我那种甜甜的笑。只是这一瞬的回忆,我会在烧掉我们的合照后彻底埋葬。

我想真心真意依旧存在于菲律宾,但是这个如被彩票大奖砸中的概率真的需要更大份额的运气成分。

告诫恋爱中的人保持清醒始终太难,只能说往事随风,拿得起也要放得下。如果注定哀伤,那么及时止损便是最好的选择。




后记


昨天前女友的表姐还给我发信息告诉我前女友要起诉我,因为我们之前打架伤害了她。我并没有过多理会,权当这是她一次最后想方设法获取金钱的途径。

她另一表姐还告诉我,因为我给的钱不够多,所以并没有帮上她的家里。

昨晚,我还和她其中一个表姐的前男友一起吃饭玩耍,只是我没有敢告诉这个前男友,其实他曾被我前女友的表姐给绿过。

谈笑风生间,有些事却不宜点破,看过且体会过这魔幻菲律宾的调调,只是余生还是要继续,希望有些坑踩一次就够了!‍

世界最大蛤蜊品种TRIDACNA GIGAS 在菲产卵950万粒

巴拉湾省世界最大土生蛤蜊 砗磲(chē qú)首次破记录现场产下950万颗卵,这是对这种濒临灭绝蛤蜊数量在菲律宾增产的一大助力。


据马南巴耶基金会(MFI)说,公主港市杜渊西菲律宾大学(WPU)孵化场的这只用于育种的土生巨蛤产下950万颗卵。

这种巨蛤的饲养由MFI及WPU主持,而负责监督这个活动的是菲大海洋科学学院(UPMSI)。
  
这种学名TRIDACNA GIGAS的蛤蜊是最濒临灭绝的,甚至早在一九八○年代菲律宾已宣称这种巨蛤已绝种。
  
西菲律宾大学(WPU)渔业及水产科学学院的克里茵舍博士说:“TRIDACNA GIGAS很难繁殖,因为它的数量很少,我们必须收集它的卵子及精子。”
  
马南巴耶基金会(MFI)表示一旦这些饲养的蛤到了适当的年龄,会把它们放回北巴拉湾受保护的海域。